Posts Tagged ‘boundaries’

Creativity And Boundary-Setting

Sunday, May 2nd, 2010

If someone told you that a piece you wrote is garbage and you’re a moron for writing it, could you object to their behavior?
When I work with people who are having trouble starting a project, this is often an area where they feel blocked.  They don’t trust their ability to protect themselves against mistreatment.  They [...]

The Joy of Listening, Part 4: Setting Boundaries

Thursday, April 16th, 2009

My last post in this series was about staying receptive and curious when we’re listening, even in the face of a “difficult conversation” or a lot of emotional intensity.  On the same issue, a few commenters on Part One said they sometimes find themselves feeling exploited and resentful when they’re listening to someone.
I suspect you, like [...]