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Beyond The “Elevator Pitch”

We hear a lot in business literature about how it’s important to have an “elevator pitch” — a prepared speech about our business that’s so concise we could deliver it to someone on a brief elevator ride.  We’re often told to memorize our elevator pitch and practice it in the mirror, making sure we look and sound appealing and confident.

This may sound great in theory, but in my experience, when someone delivers an elevator pitch to me, it’s pretty obvious and painful.

Often, I’ll be at a party or event, having an otherwise pleasant conversation with someone.  But then we’ll get into talking about their business, and they’ll suddenly undergo an unnerving transformation — their posture will get rigidly straight, they’ll slap on a forced grin, and they may even start speaking in rhyme (“I turn your reads into leads”), as they recite their rehearsed speech.

When someone starts talking this way, it doesn’t exactly inspire me to buy what they’re selling — instead, whatever pleasure I was getting from our conversation quickly evaporates, and I want to excuse myself for more hors d’oeuvres.

“Elevator Pitching” To Yourself

I don’t mean to say elevator pitches are never useful.  I’ve found, both in observing myself and working with clients, that delivering a sales pitch out loud is most helpful, not when we’re talking with another person, but when we’re alone.

The exercise I’m suggesting — which is similar to an exercise I have people do in pairs in my workshop — involves simply finding a place to be alone, and speaking, out loud, a brief description of what you have to offer.  As you do this, notice how you find yourself feeling and reacting.

Some questions you might ask yourself include:  where is my body tensing up as I’m talking?  Is this a really intense or anxiety-provoking experience?  Is there some reason why doing this doesn’t feel okay — maybe, for instance, there’s a sense that I’m being pushy, greedy, or deceptive, or that I’m wasting someone else’s time?

In my experience, the more awareness we develop around why it’s hard to talk about our business, the more we become able to put into perspective the difficult thoughts and feelings that come up when we self-promote.

How This Has Helped Me

This exercise has been very helpful to me personally.  In the past, when someone asked me “what do you do?”, I’d find answering difficult for some reason.  I’d get an uncomfortable, heavy feeling in my stomach, and to avoid that feeling I’d often find myself downplaying what I did or changing the subject.

Worse still, all the usual techniques for crafting a compelling elevator pitch didn’t seem to help.  No matter how much I practiced my speech, and worked to deliver it with convincing intonation and body language, that pesky sensation remained.

I finally started getting more comfortable talking about my business when I shifted my focus from trying to “look and sound good,” to getting intimate with that weird feeling that came up when I promoted myself.  My new practice was to make my speech, while holding my attention on my stomach and any queasiness that arose there.

What I found was that, the more I just allowed that unsettled feeling to be there, without running away from it or criticizing myself for having it, the more familiar and tolerable it became.  Once the feeling became easier to be with, talking about my business began to feel more natural, and even fun now and then.

Some Announcements

Upcoming workshop: I’ll be leading another full-day Inner Productivity Intensive workshop in the San Francisco Bay Area, on February 26, 2011, with yoga teacher Rosy Moon.  I’ll be offering a substantial discount to my newsletter subscribers shortly, so I’d definitely recommend signing up for the newsletter if the course sounds like something you’d be interested in.

New e-book at DevInContext: At my lesser-known-but-just-as-worthwhile blog, DevInContext, I’ve released a free e-book compiling some of my best posts there into longer essays.  I think it will be food for thought for you if you’ve been interested in any of the recent controversies surrounding the personal development field.

I came to praise them, not bury them: I previously put links to Evita‘s and Patricia‘s warm and wonderful reviews of my audio course at the end of one of my more “avant-garde,” “grunge,” and, er, “Personal Development 3.0″ posts, but I thought it would also be helpful to add them at the end of this one too, to make sure their posts get the exposure they deserve.

4 thoughts on
Beyond The “Elevator Pitch”

  1. Davina Haisell

    Hi Chris.
    I like your suggestions; if we try to fix that uncomfortable feeling it keeps us distracted. Whether I’m receiving or giving them, I’ve never been comfortable with elevator speeches. When I focus on the “selling” aspect, that’s when I feel uncomfortable. However, if I focus beyond what I do and go with with feeling of why I do it, I feel less disconnected.

  2. Hilary

    Hi Chris .. you’re so right .. that sort of staccato saying .. and then what on earth are we saying .. it’s when you’re comfortable with what you’re doing .. you’re up close and intimate with your own work, that it will flow out. I’m comfortable with my blog – just not sure the direction I can take it .. or it will take me – lots of opportunities and in the New Year I need to set some path for it .. and start the process even if slowly – then I’ll need a summary overview.

    Thanks interesting thoughts and so helpful to not be frightened, relax into our business and be at ease .. it will all show as we progress. Good for you .. the Purpose Power Coaching is certainly guiding us ..

    Have a good Christmas and festive time .. and a very good 2011 .. Cheers Hilary

  3. Chris - Post author

    Hi Davina — yes, that feels refreshing to me at least — the idea of connecting with why you’re really doing what you’re doing, as opposed to what you think they think you should think about what you do. :)

  4. Chris - Post author

    Hi Hilary — I like that way of putting it — that when we’re actually comfortable with what we’re doing, it’s much easier to “sell ourselves” than when we’ve memorized a pitch that’s intended to make us look like we’re enjoying ourselves.

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